Help with taking anal fun

[tezuk]

Hi guys,

I'd like someone to give me advice. I'm 45yrs. My ass is very tight, and I'm desperate for a good fucking.

I tried with a guy the other night but it was too painful.

How do you suggest I get myself loosened a little to take hard cock?
Help from someoen who has been in the same situation would be appreciated.

Terry

[servu57]

Hi Terry; I hear you loud and clear. I had almost given up untill I met the right guy, who gently and patiently opened me with his fingers. I took a couple of nights, and then before I knew it he slipped in. Most of the pain is caused by our mind telling us that something is entering where normally everything exits. So you should now spend some cash on some lube and a small plug, or dildo. Take your time getting first one the two (etc) well lubed fingers up yourself. Then move your fingers around, learn what feels good and what your reactions are. Constantly keep removing your fingers, then bear down as if taking a dump and you will find your fingers slip right in. Once feeling comfortable start inserting the dildo. Take it slow lot's of lube in and out untill all of a sudden your now hungry hole will literally suck it in.
Be patient with yourself and find a man that will be the same to you. Once you have lost your "virginity" you will always hunger for cock..just keep playing!
Hope this helps...cheers glen :hide: