sactoken_916
07-14-2004, 02:30 AM
...what's a guy to do?
I may be a hard guy for you to pin down...for a number of reasons. First, I'm married. I'm gay. I wear two rings...one for my wife, and one for my boyfriend/partner/pareja. She is in Northern California, and he is in Baja California...as in Mexico.
I'm honest with both of them, but have yet to figure out if I am being honest with myself.
I am a person who honors commitments...and I love to play. I expected one or both of them to say "no more" or "no mas" however they don't. I must be quite a catch, right? Everyone loves me, so no ultimatums have been forthcoming.
Do I follow my heart? If so, I have to figure out where it lays because parts of it are in both places.
Except, one thing I know...I am gay. That's for sure. So I keep thinking that has to lead me to him.
I own/moderate two yahoo groups:
http://www.groups.yahoo.com/group/Baja-Gay/and
http://www.groups.yahoo.com/group/Mexico-Gay/
I'd love to talk about Mexico...I love it! Especially Mexican men...I could just get lost in those brown eyes.... Want to travel or retire in Mexico, ask me...I've got a lot of information to share.
Love to hear from anyone about being married and gay. I think I have survived that one too, even though it's not completely over. A great wife, a good therapist, and a lot of good reading has helped.
And, in general, I'm a good listener. I've mentored a lot of young men struggling with coming out (go figure) so if you think you like what I sound like, feel free!
Satisfaction guaranteed or your dick back!
I may be a hard guy for you to pin down...for a number of reasons. First, I'm married. I'm gay. I wear two rings...one for my wife, and one for my boyfriend/partner/pareja. She is in Northern California, and he is in Baja California...as in Mexico.
I'm honest with both of them, but have yet to figure out if I am being honest with myself.
I am a person who honors commitments...and I love to play. I expected one or both of them to say "no more" or "no mas" however they don't. I must be quite a catch, right? Everyone loves me, so no ultimatums have been forthcoming.
Do I follow my heart? If so, I have to figure out where it lays because parts of it are in both places.
Except, one thing I know...I am gay. That's for sure. So I keep thinking that has to lead me to him.
I own/moderate two yahoo groups:
http://www.groups.yahoo.com/group/Baja-Gay/and
http://www.groups.yahoo.com/group/Mexico-Gay/
I'd love to talk about Mexico...I love it! Especially Mexican men...I could just get lost in those brown eyes.... Want to travel or retire in Mexico, ask me...I've got a lot of information to share.
Love to hear from anyone about being married and gay. I think I have survived that one too, even though it's not completely over. A great wife, a good therapist, and a lot of good reading has helped.
And, in general, I'm a good listener. I've mentored a lot of young men struggling with coming out (go figure) so if you think you like what I sound like, feel free!
Satisfaction guaranteed or your dick back!